Bitter = Quitter?

Sunday, January 24, 2010 |


All it takes is for a guy to ADMIT that he was thinking of another girl while he's with you. (Oh yeah, sorry it took so long to put up a new post. Had to focus on the first week of classes.) And you can become the "Bitter Black Woman" for the past two weeks I felt as if I was in the transitioning period of becoming this stereotype. And I was right. I haven't been in a real lovey-dovey, "no you hang up first", kissy face, I can't wait to call him/her, relationship in three years. I've dated and all I seem to attract is jackasses, bullshitters, and fake ass pimps (and those nicknames are given those who are deserving in my address book). So back to the very first sentence..that was the straw that broke the camel's back. I went into a rage right out of your favorite urban novel or BET Blackbuster Movie (*ahem* Baby Boy). I couldn't believe that he had said this to me. Of course not without beating around the bush a few times until he figured out how he wanted to say it.  I had put plenty of time into this "young man" and thought he could have been a potential boyfriend. FUCK NO! Instead, he just uses the excuse that he told the truth. Okay and? You were still doing something that was gonna hurt my feelings. With that, and this random guy steady trying to talk to me AND my ex-girlfriend who has a son and is engaged. I am through with the whole dating scene. And I will be put in that "Bitter Black Woman" box. Now it's just me, school, and the money. But do you think being a bitter person equal to being a quitter? Leave it in the comments.

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